一個人,因為太高興/憤怒/悲哀,會甚麼都幹不成;通常人稱這叫作心散。
然而,這只是因為他們那時候太專注於該種情緒之中,所以心散了。
換句話說,在人們眼中他們心散的時候,其實,他們在專注。
所以,人們會因專注而心散,或因心散而專注,只是誰站在誰看的觀點與角度。
我是明白的。
因為,當一個人太高興/憤怒/悲哀時,是無論如何都會聽不進外間任何聲音的,包括別人的話。
有時候,倒蠻像被鬼附的樣子。
可把這叫作恐怖,或者使人激氣,又或者無奈。
不過透徹明白過後,就不覺得是一回事了。
只不過是因專注而心散,或因心散而專注而已。
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"當一個人太高興/憤怒/悲哀時,是無論如何都會聽不進外間任何聲音的,包括別人的話。" <-- True for a lot of human interactions. During these moments, regardless how correct 別人 say, that audience simply shuts off.
my experience told me that during these moments when audience(s) has clouded judgement, the most helpful thing I can offer is to listen carefully, pause for silence, think of 1 or 2 concise statement to say to him. Then pray in my heart, remain silent & finally leave.
In this info explosive age, we've watched & read too much but seldom have the tranquility to reflect & truely learn.
Very true...
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