an in-ear headphone is all you need. it save your ears from noise, whether it's the engine, the roadshow or a few non-sense conversations. alternatively, you can join their discussions and keep talking all the time such that they are not able to speak a word until you get off the bus or train or what-so-ever. may be you'd earn a new friend by doing that.
staring at them is, honestly, no use at all. i think they like to get attention, be a star. may be you can hand them a flyer from church. so that you can either get a chance to bring them back or freak them out of the vehicles.
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敢怒不敢言的感覺的確是很難受
this is really a BAD situation, these people won't even care of how you are being annoyed...and nothing can do... solution: wear earphone
有时候我会"怒bare"..但是都是没用的...
所以最好都是带备MP3或IPOD....
我都有"怒bare"呀...不過好像香港人就會是這樣,這是standard似的。總之,我覺得無人會喜歡香港的古怪standard的,不止這點的,還有很多,很多...
an in-ear headphone is all you need. it save your ears from noise, whether it's the engine, the roadshow or a few non-sense conversations. alternatively, you can join their discussions and keep talking all the time such that they are not able to speak a word until you get off the bus or train or what-so-ever. may be you'd earn a new friend by doing that.
staring at them is, honestly, no use at all. i think they like to get attention, be a star. may be you can hand them a flyer from church. so that you can either get a chance to bring them back or freak them out of the vehicles.
會不會是在說話的時候空間很小,自己被迫地聽了進去?
前兩天在巴士裡遇到同樣情況, 對方聊得起勁,還提及一些商業機密, 當時真的在想是不是要報警......
（看完筆者的文章，聯想如下，可能不太關聯，見諒）
如果保留私隱在沒有價值下可以隨意轉讓，可能城市里的很多人都是因爲孤獨而需要偷偷的跟陌生人分享。
想象高聲談話的人好像在他的口袋放著一大堆零錢，因爲私隱的壓力，或者生活的壓力把那沉重的口袋快要下墜的壓力釋放出來。
因此，不被邀請的聲音粗魯的越過你的界線，衝破了你極力維護的範圍。如此野蠻的動作，在沒有辦法防備下原來行動起來挺“優雅”，在於侵略者與被害者之間原來沒有一線相隔，不論是一個空間里/車廂内/座椅上，每個人都有極大的自由，隨意進行無形的偷襲。
攻擊者不會理會或等待任何人的防備，已經可以留下傷痕，那種快要“爆”的情緒，恨不得馬上咆哮的欲望，可能需要一天一夜，放著柔和的音樂，才可以慢慢平復，沒有私隱的空間，怎樣逃？
如果在每一個區內都放置一些好像電話亭之類的裝置，裡面放著一個headphone，付了錢後，可選一些平靜的大自然聲音，或像new age之類的音樂，總之是可以讓人可享受片刻寧靜的地方，那就好了．．．
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